Dear Dadda ji,
I was really shocked to read this story of NRI
Dr. Gulam Moonda, 69, urologist was murdered by this triangle
love of American Woman.
Whether the motive was money or a wife wishing to trade a husband
who was 20 years older for a lover who was 20 years younger does
not matter. It is the calculated nature of the murder that compels
the jury to consider this crime worthy of the ultimate punishment.
It is a shame that federal judges do not allow cameras in their
courtrooms. Moonda's 26-year-old lover, Damian Bradford, the triggerman,
testified that he and Moonda met the day of the murder and she provided
the route that she and her husband would be taking from Hermitage,
Pa., to Toledo. Cell phone records support that testimony and also
put Bradford near the scene of the murder.
Prosecutors told the jury that Moonda grew tired of marriage to
the doctor more than 20 years her senior, but was still in love
with his money.
"She wanted to get what was owed to her," Bradford said
on the witness stand.
The defense contended that Moonda could have received $1.3 million
to $1.5 million in a divorce settlement. But prosecutors said she
didn't know that and believed she would have been limited to $250,000
by a prenuptial agreement. The doctor, worth more than $3 million,
also had life insurance policies totaling $676,000.
Daddaji, if Dr. Moonda had been married to Indian
lady, it was not going to happened.
Secondly what kind of lesson to NRIs of
this story?
Thanks for your contribution and services to our NRI
community.
Harjit Kaur, SouthHall, UK
Dear Harjit,
Nothing is wrong to marry out of cast but there are
some exceptions, we must get smart to judge our own IQ before any
decision
There is no doubt that Dr. Moonda was a great man,
helpful to others and even he helped her to become professional
and later married to her. In this case, there are some issues here:
- Love cannot be bought with money. She married to him for his
money and sacrificed her 22 years. When he reached at the age
60 and still she is 38- she felt mistake and realize that there
was no marriage exist for her according to the environment and
society.
- She could have been received over $1.3 million in a divorce
settlement but she became greedy, frustrated, felt that this person
has cheated her and ruined her young romantic life with the power
of money.
- She decided to take a revenge and killed him
The woman in the older groups do not accept the younger
women and the younger groups don't accept the older men. There are
three important things to remember about age difference relationships.
First, both parties should be old enough to have experienced life.
Both need to be adults. Second, neither party can have a problem
with the difference in years. And finally, the two must have that
connection between them which makes them right for each other
Some times 45-50 yrs old NRI men go to India and marry
to 20-25 yrs old girl. If you know some body who is doing mistake,
please send this article to them
Gary Singh
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