When I was in school and a college student, I always stood for the rights of women. I wanted that women should have a very respectable and prestigious place in the society. Women should never suffer at the hands of society. I had the opinion that men always have upper hand in society and it is the man who is responsible for the fate of women.
But no, it is a woman, I should say it is a mother, who is always misguiding her daughter. A mother wants her daughter to be independent and have a career. So far it is good. I should say it is very very good for a woman to have independent thought and a good career.
Today, girls have created problems for families on these two issues. The girl understands the meaning of independence, is to go out anytime with anybody, disregards all good virtues of life, and disrespect the elders in the family rules. They keep their separate identity and hide their personal pattern of life even from people who share their lives. They are not true to anybody even to their kids. They betray the families with whom they live in. The second thing emphases is also related to independence- the career they want not only gives them economic independence, but under the garb of career, they pollute the atmosphere for other workers. They stay out of home for whole of the day, never cook, never clean, don't take care of their own kids or family, but don't want to share the money earned by them and that money they spend on their own luxuries.
Hence a woman while raising another woman teaches her to be selfish, arrogent.obstinate and rude. Male is a sufferer these days as he is to deal with such a type of his life partner. Anybody, who reads it please try to make girls understand that by getting the real and good meaning of these two words, Independence and Career; they can gain a prestigious place in family and society.
Sue

In some sections some rough moments may be happening here and there,but in broad terms human life is human life and it should be honored everywhere. The women organizations should realize the present change of attitude in women. Today girl is not a sufferer. She is a source of torture to her in laws family. The girls want money, power and total indigence. They do not want to work even for their own kids. They need husband to bring in money, d sex and mother-in-law to raise kids. They do not have any interest to promote the family value or welfare and try to harm their in-laws family in every possible manner. They come from India to fulfill their ambitions and have a very fashionable and independent life. They do not want to realize the rough and difficult time theor husbands spent to give them comforts of life. They are never thankful or grateful to the family. plz see this is my own opinion of fast changing times in the world of women.

Sue, USA

Reader's Opinion

From: Yadav, Subhadra [mailto:Subhadra.Yadav@VirginMobileUSA.com]
Sent: Tuesday, August 22, 2006 3:36 PM
To: opinion@nriinternet.com
Subject: [SPAM] comments for Sue

Sue,

Looks like you are a man with a woman’s name…or are you a woman who is control freak and orthodox. Are you a working woman? Do you live with arrogant in-laws? Women had issues with in-laws thirty years back when women were not educated but they did not have option but to tolerate nonsense and same issue we have today. But today women have options….they speak up and defend their self respect. Men who appreciate them and their efforts live happily with them.

Women are not working to “stay out of home for whole of the day, never cook, never clean, don't take care of their own kids or family, but don't want to share the money earned by them and that money they spend on their own luxuries.” You are such a retard. Educated women stand equally with their men to make a home and family and supporting him emotionally and financially. Hav’nt you heard women sharing mortgages and working hard to send her kids to best schools.

You have some serious issues and built up anger that you are imposing on other women. See a doctor and clean your mind. I don’t see you in a healthy relationship ever. You are burden on mankind.

Subi