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Is it money and
Parents are enough for NRI to dump his wife and daughter in India?
Her first email:
My Name is Preeti,staying in Mumbai with my
parents from last 2 1/2yrs. I got married in 2001 25th feb. Me
and my husband had a peaceful life.. but after his parents came
to USA, everything got changed.. My problem is he just listens
to his parents.. and not taking any decision. My husband is not
ready to call me back to USA. I have a 5yrs old daughter.She is
an USA citizen. He is not sending a single penny for our survival.
Is there any law, using it I can join him, or I can force him
to call me.. .. He is keeping conditions that I should join his
parents if I want to join him and he will call me whenever he
wants(he is just making fool to everyone) I dont have his address...
so how can I findout his add and how can I proceed to get the
justice...
Our opinion:
Our reporter from US contacted her in Bombay three time and
one time her husband in US. According to our reporter with talking
both parties, they had a normal life as husband and wife before
his parents came. She was sent to India with her baby that all
they would settle in India, according to his wife. Later on his
parents also went back to India. He is alone here in US and saving
money with no support to his wife and child in India
Interestly, his wife is still like to join with
him. Even she had a valid case for dowry 498A LAW and under this
law his parents can be put in jail within couple of days but under
hope she did not do it.
After the advice of the reporter to her husband,
he became excited and telephoned to his wife next morning.
After few weeks, he changed his mind and told her
to stay with his parent six month and then he will consider sponsoring
her, according to his wife.
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May 21, 2007
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Name_First112206: Preeti
LAST: Panchal
City, Country: Mumbai,India
EMAIL: preetypanchal@rediffmail.com
Telephone: In File
Name of this Article: What steps should be taken
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Hi,
My Name is Preeti,staying in Mumbai with my parents
from last 2 1/2yrs. I got married in 2001 25th feb. Me and my
husband had a peaceful life.. but after his parents came to USA,
everything got changed.. My problem is he just listens to his
parents.. and not taking any decision. My husband is not ready
to call me back to USA. I have a 5yrs old daughter.She is an USA
citizen. He is not sending a single penny for our survival. Is
there any law,using it I can join him, or I can force him to call
me.. .. He is keeping conditions that I should join his parents
if I want to join him and he will call me whenever he wants(he
is just making fool to everyone) I dont have his address... so
how can I findout his add and how can I proceed to get the justice...
If u have any suggetions pls mail me on preetypanchal@rediffmail.com
name: Submit
May 21, 2007
From: Preety Yogesh Panchal [mailto:preetypanchal@rediffmail.com]
Sent: Monday, May 21, 2007 10:34 AM
To: karen@nriinternet.com
Subject: [SPAM] My story
Hello Mr Gary sing,
Writing u my story..
My name is Preety Yoesh Panchal.. I got married
to NRI Mr.Yogesh Panchal on 25th Feb 2001 with the blessings of
my and his parents... and well wishers.
My husband is a s.w engg.. self made man.. raised
from very poor family.. He called me to USA Houston (TX)on 17th
July2001, We had very happy married life... we were like a lovebirds..
always together caring for each other.. loved a lot.. God blessed
us with beautiful princess Shreya on 24th Oct 2002.. which made
us more happy...
To share these precious moments I called my In-laws.
For few days everything was fine, but my in-laws started typical
saans -bahu drama by telling small small things to my husband,
and he was also so listening to her.. I never replied her back
but she took advantage of it...
My husband once told me that I wanna buy a beautiful
house for my parents.. so if u stay in India for a year we will
able to save some money.. I came to India and stayed with my parents
and also completed my studies.. but within that year my In-laws
tried there best to make us fight like a cats...
When I again went back in May 2004 with my 1 1/2
daughter.. my husband was totally changed man and just listening
to his parents and used to fight with me.. saying bad words to
my family members and biting me a lot.. He also used to go out
keeping me and my daughter alone at home for 2 to 3days...
well after torturing he forcefully send me to India
with my daughter and its been 2 1/2 yrs .. he is not ready to
call me..Not sending me a single penny for my daughters education
or in her illness.My daughter also suffered with kidney problem
but after informing him, he never called my daughter ,so he can
save some more. He has ruin my and my daughter's life just because
of his parents greediness.. They are thinking, I will stay in
India ,son will save money for them..
These greedy people are not thinking of there own granddaughter...
I request to all oldies,keep there nose away from
there son's happy marriage life... because it makes impact on
there own third generation.
My Husband's full name is Mr.Yogesh M Panchal
Staying in Houston some where...
his Mobile no is---in our file
Email ID is yogesh_panchal@hotmail.com
sending u scanned notice also
I will be in touch with u.. and u also keep in touch
with me.. Thanks for ur help
Take care
Take care
Regards
Preety
Our Press
reporter Contact her husband, Mr.Yogesh Panchal :
-
On May 21, Left a message on
his cell in the morning
-
Yogesh called
in the evenig
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Press reporter:
- I am press reporter, please don't hang
up.
- First of all we help NRIs. We don't force
you that you have to live with your wife but you had dump
5 years girl, your own daughter, and she is NRI
- Mr. Yogesh, you are not doing right thing
as a human.............it continued 20 minutes......
- Our reporter did not like his attitude
by half laughing and any love his daughter....... but
agree all the time ... but parents is always concern
-
Yogesh:
- Sir, I follow your advice, your are like
my father. I am going to call her but she should need
some communication with my parent
- Next day he called his wife after long
time
This conversation went about
more than 1/2 hour, advice him positive and negative and his
future. He agree 90% except parents issue
She thanks
our reporter because he called after long time
From: Preety Yogesh Panchal [mailto:preetypanchal@rediffmail.com]
Sent: Tuesday, May 22, 2007 3:28 AM
To: karen
Subject: [SPAM] Hello
Hello Mr.Gary,
First of all thanks to u... I believe u spoke to
my husband yesterday after u receive my mail...
Today morning only(yours yesterday night)he called
me and spoke to me very nicely.. he didnt tell me conversation
betn you people but he said "I got call from some reporter....and
I wanna solve problem betn us"...He has promised me that
he will call me around month of August so we can start my daughter's
schooling...
Right now he has told me that I should goto his
parents for may be a month and then we will work with visa...
I am keeping my fingers cross that whatever he spoke, he will
do that and he'll not change his tongue.. I will be in touch with
u.. though.. If needed I will take ur help.
I really .. appreciate ur call.. and I feel like
we must be having some kind of good relation in our past life.
I am thankful to u..
God bless u.
Preety
Take care
Regards
Preety
June 10, 2007
Her husband changed
his mind again
From: Preety Yogesh Panchal [mailto:preetypanchal@rediffmail.com]
Sent: Sunday, June 10, 2007 3:45 AM
To: karen
Hello Mr. Gary sing..sir
Sorry to mail u so late...
Well as u spoke to me that day... I mail my husband
and gave him threat also.. but he is not afraid of anything..
well I spoke to my lawyer also.. ...............................
he can use the section of 420..(fraud)also. My lawyer has few
cases in his hand ...............................................
I have got letter from Indian consulate that they
r searching my husband's add .. and if they won't sucseed then
court automatically take help of USA gov to find my husband..
He told me that ur case is very simple dont make it complicated..
he has to pay for ur daughter and for u for last 2 1/2 yrs...
and the big thing we will get outcome fast.
I will update u abt my case.. and I hope ,If I needed
I will get help from u.. As I told u for my daughter sake I wanna
give him one chance.. because I know whatever happening is just
becuase of his parents.. he might change his mind after few months..
Well I am really happy that someone from USA is
there to help me or guide me..
Thanks for ur calls and for ur feelings..
take care Bye
Take care
Regards
Preety